Monday, November 18, 2019

MARRIAGE A JOYFUL ESTATE OF MATURITY. BY REV NDUBUISI MICHAEL. Genesis 2:18-25

See and accept me the way I am is the language of a good relationship, trust is the strength of it, while love helps it last longer, stay matured.

 BY REV NDUBUISI MICHAEL 


Marriage Quotes Add love to marriage it will give you, a joyful condition of good fortunes, cos the hammer love breaks walls in marriage. Rev Ndubuisi Michael.

A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. Mignon McLaughlin

A great marriage is not when the perfect couple come together, it is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences. Dave Meurer

May I start by telling you that, marriage is a game made for the wise and matured men not for amateur, do you know why? A good marriage is secret territory, a necessary white space on society’s map. How do I mean, issues of the marriage is the business of the two the third person should be God, don’t take your marriage differences outside, to friends, to the mothers or to the fathers, remember, Dave Meurer says ” A great marriage is not when the perfect couple come together, it is when an imperfect couple learn to enjoy their differences ” you can make a good marriage if you put this to heart.
Then What Is Marriage Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines; Marriage as an institution whereby individuals are joined in a marriage. The state of being unite as spouse in a consensual and contractual relationship recognized by law. But hear me, I see it and define it as, God’s Constituted and instituted relationship of transparency that exists between husband and wife, that know no shame, vs 24. Therefore shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall cleave unto his wife and they be one flesh. KJV Explanation: that word cleave unto, in Igbo language, is "rapara" which is "gumming" unto her, because you are her strength and she in turn is your comfort. Please tell us this, marriage is also love, if there is no love, there is no marriage, always be close to your spouse naked or clothed, satisfy yours eyes in his or her nakedness and also on the bed, any time your spouse needs it, give it to him or her, no excuses, for God knows about sex, He has it in his plans before bringing woman to the man, He knows all things. In vs 25. And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed. This is why you will in no just curse say am ashamed of my wife, because she is you and you are her.

Great Mystery Following Marriage. The mystical thing that is in the first marriage, in the garden of Eden between Adam and Eve; (1) Adam was sitting moody: which explains that he needed a companion not a complainant, if you talk about companion, you talk of being a friend, in acquaintance and in company with your spouse. Let me say this, the reason why Eve convinced Adam, I presume, was because she sat beside him in a romantic way, she touched his heart with a patterned love. When you sit as friend, in acquaintance with husband mostly romantic, softness is always the tune of the talk, if not harshness and hardness becomes the tune. (2) He is quiet and unhappy: cos he tired out in life, he needed a helper not a heater, for there was much stress in world he could not do things alone. When Pharisees came to tempt Jesus. Mt 19:4 And he answered and said to them, Have you not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female. be a helper to your spouse don’t be heater, if you are not helping, you are heating.
(3) Adam was looking very sympathetic: he need one who could understand his human feelings and satisfy them both in works and in sex, let me pulse and say this, there are two places to settle differences “on the table and on the bed” if you miss this places, matters may be unsettled, on the table side prepare the favourite of man and serve him, sit beside him, watch him your food then try to be romantic both in words and otherwise then bring up the matter, you will settlement, on bed side, use four play sex pattern, which is; romancing, kissing, socking and fingering, then sex follows, then bring the matter up, case settled.
Mystery B: God did not use the flesh of the man or even any other part of the bone, but the ribs, why? Now watch it. YOUR RIBS MOVE LIKE A BUCKET HANDLE. The ribs allow chest expansion for breathing, Martinez explains. “They function similarly to the bucket handle on a bucket and swing upwards as we take a breath, allowing the thoracic cavity to expand.” This increase in the thoracic cavity makes it easier to take a breath. That why the scripture says, they are helpmeet or helpers, they make life easier to any man who found good one of them. Proverbs 18:22 
(Aplifier). He who finds a [true] wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. [Prov. 19:14; 31:10.] They out there, are all women but not all of them are good to you as wife, so there is need for searching among them to fine a good one of them.
2. YOU HAVE THREE TYPES OF RIBS. The human skeleton has 12 pairs of ribs. Working from the top of the torso down, ribs 1 to 7 are considered “true ribs,” as they connect directly from the spine to the sternum, (breast bone) to protect your lungs, heart, spleen, and most of the liver and help with giving shape to your chest cavity, which assists in breathing, Martinez says. Ribs 8 to 10 are called “false ribs” because they don’t connect directly, but have cartilage that attaches them to the sternum. Ribs 11 and 12 are called “floating ribs” because they only connect to the spine in back. These, he says, “are much shorter.” All are important, but we have ” true rips ” this explains why Bible say; who can find a virtuous and capable wife? She is more than rubies. Prov 31:10. A woman is capable of keeping you and she also capable of killing you, so marriage is a game made for the wise and mature men.
Marriage An Estate Of Joy. The Lord God did not do us bad to call us into marriage, is a thing of joy, warming one to another, rubbing minds together, having lawfully sexual patiner, making babies, teaching one another moral lives and sharing in the nature of God, which is love, for God is love. You don’t prepare in marriage, you prepare for marriage, many Christians even thinks that marrying another good Christian is a sure way to have a happy home but many have been disappointed. A happy home is a function of mutual fulfilment derived from mutual selfless commitment to the marital union. Having a happy home can only be achieved by deliberate efforts and determination of both parties. No matter how much a partner desires a happy home, it can only happen if the other partner wants and agrees to build a happy home. No couple is happy when they continue to look at each other’s weaknesses or offences. They can only be happy if they choose to accept each other’s shortcomings and offenses. In a happy home, ego and self are buried in the grave of marital bliss. Partners in a happy home don’t think too much about themselves but the happiness of their spouse. To achieve a happy home, therefore bot parties must first die at the cross of marriage. They must both first offer themselves as a living sacrifice on the altar of their marriage. They must deny themselves and be willing to accept their cross. Happy couples don’t compare their marriage with others, they are happy and contented with what they have. You can initiate the journey to a happy home today no matter how far you have traveled in the path of bitterness and unforgiveness. An unhappy home is the junior sibling to hell fire. A happy home is a reflection of heavenly bliss. The choice is yours today.

Rev M. U. Ndubuisi is a Dynamic preacher, a Galant Soldier, Poublic speaker for conferences and seminars. We also run advert to any who wants to excel, that needs advert, call on us, is with an Express move

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