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Is The Content, Not The Container That Keeps Relationship.Prov 23:7, 17:17. By Rev Ndubuisi Michael.
Definition of a Content and Container: a content is valuable or invaluable things or goods inside a container, while a container is defined as an object such as a box or a bowel that goods are placed in, so that they can be moved from one place to another. Here I see you as the container and your attitude is the content.
No matter how tall, handsome, huge, fair, dark or anointed, you are, you will definitely need someone succeed, don't tell me you don't need anyone to blow in life, are you a witch? A from Carl Gustav Jung says. "The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances, if there is any reaction both are transformed". If you needs someone to succeed that is to say you need relationships, if you need a relationship that is to say, you need an Attitude which is content while you are the container, your handsomeness, your hugeness, your tallness, your fairness or darkness can give you relationship but they can't keep or maintain your relationship, what keeps or maintains it is attitude, the content.
WE HAVE TWO TYPES OF ATTITUDE;
Negative Attitude: Negative Attitude will hamper your growth, why, becos negative attitude will scatter the relationship that could give you excellence of life, while Positive Attitude will not only keep the relationship but also give you announcement and introduction through the relationship. People, Friends, Companies and Families are all looking for a Destiny Associate; destiny associates are people that you talk to, or tell your problems or pain and they will not a mock out of it, rather they will walk you out of the problems or pain either in word, conduct, advice, financial assistance or spiritual help standing with you in prayer, making your pains their pain.
Why becos they love you genuinely, they can go out of their way to help you, they can consistently stand with you even when others left you.
Genuine relationship depend not on riches no, but virtues, habits, disciplines, duties, and action.
You want to be great in life, then start building on relationships through a positive attitudes like:- Humility which not allow you think high of yourself more than everybody ( James 4:10 ). (2) Goodness which not allow you to be arrogant but be kind to everybody ( Ps 21:3&4 ) (3) Obedient and Respect; Which takes you to the top and gives you ability to learn more, "for the movement of the toad is bend down and take old age" ( I daru ala gi were nka ) in Igbo language. (4) Persistency which will you to be stable in any given decision you take. (5) Truthfulness which make people to see you as an honest man ( Prov 23:23 ). (6) Love which make love everyone as yourself ( Rom 13:8 ). (7) Godliness let the world see God in day by day living ( Ps 1:1&2 ). (8) Prayer; you should be prayerful, you can move your world with prayer ( 1Thesis 5:17 ). (9) Focus; many relationships fails not becos of lack of love, but becos of lack of focus, or lose of focus, what we call failure today is rather a break of focus, becos you are the subject, focus on the subject which is you, work on yourself over your future, over your growth, centered on relationships, and you see success standing at your next look. (10) Righteousness; the word righteousness means being morally good following moral laws, or the act of doing the right thing. So your happiness is not about finding the right people, rather is about you becoming the right person, if you find the right people when you're not the right person what do you think will happen to that right people, is suicide bomb, you want kill them? So work towards you becoming the right person and be complete, the world will look for you. Your life will attract the right people, when you have the complete content. Tell your neighbor you are not my completion, am the completion of my self.
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